Who The Hell Did I Marry?



Today in court was my final divorce hearing. Ladies I can not stress enough to follow your gut instincts, that's what God gave them to you for. Not on did I find out I was married to a con man, but he allowed us to struggle and for what? To live off a disabled woman by using me for a place to live. I found out that not only was this man a managing partner in a business, He had a trust fund and a home I knew nothing about. Please do some research about the men you meet online. DO A THOROUGH BACKGROUND CHECK. 49.99 IS NOT A LOT TO PAY TO AVOID A LIFE TIME OF REGRET. Funny thing was is that he said I could run an background check on him, but I didn't even when that little voice in my head was telling me. I didn't find out that he was involved in several lawsuits. He had a home in Boca Raton and a trust fund. If he sounds too good to be true. HE PROBABLY IS. I was an easy mark due to being afraid to be alone because of my chronic illness with heart failure. I came out on the other side OK, but I am extremely leery of any man I meet online now. When I am finished with the book I hope to get some good feedback as well as some constructive advice from it.

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