It’s Over and Done

My husband and I are truly over now. He finally moved out and I am simply relieved that he’s gone now. The only thing left to do is file the paperwork for the divorce. 
I waited patiently for him to get the message loud and clear that It would never be him and me ever again. I haven’t moved back into the bedroom because it has to undergo a transformation where there’s no memories of him left in that room. I felt disrespected in that room so until I transform it and cleanse that room I will not be sleeping in that room.
I’m hoping to be divorced completely by the end of the year. Not sure if the lawyers will take my case but either way, I’m going to try my hardest to get my maiden name back. I wouldn’t suggest you marry anyone you’re not completely compatible with. You should have a good Christian foundation to build on and not have a divided heart. This was one very expensive lesson to learn.

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