I wanted to talk tonight about something positive and that is finding ways to be sexy even though you are a plus size women. I have been told thorough the years when I put my make up on I'm a very beautiful woman. Problem was is that I NEVER SAW or BELIEVED that because I NEVER heard it from the man I was in love with. Oh, yeah he would always make comment about how sexy my lips were, but in the back of his dirty mind he was being crude. Some men have so much to learn about women, and they need to know what's appropriate and WHAT'S NOT OK to say to a woman. He used to say I was conceited about my looks because I loved taking photos, it wasn't that I could always look at a big woman and see the beauty in her. In these photos here are some very beautiful plus size women they rage in size from 14-32 and they are so beautiful to me and they just happen to be my sisters. Life has not been exactly fair to us when it comes to matters of the heart, but I am optimistic that it will turn around for us.
Sometime you have to take your own sexy into your hands and make it count. From getting your hair and nails done to once a month treating yourself to a nice outfit and taking yourself out to dinner and a movie anything you can do to take the focus off your illness. I plan to take full advantage of finding myself again and you can too. Just because we are sick doesn't mean with have to look sick if we can help it. Because sexy is a frame of mind.
