Dignity and Gracefulness

I woke up this morning with a phone call from my God-baby. We had a short brief chat and I came away from it with the conclusion is that we as women put ourselves in situations we don't have to be in when it comes to a man. WE ARE BUSY JUMPING UP AND DOWN GOING "PICK ME!, PICK ME". We have a gift and to recognize that gift gives US the power. Wars have been waged over it, friendships and families have been divided over the beguiling ways of a woman. She is loving when she wants to be, conniving when she has to be and treacherous when she has been scorned. It takes a lot for a woman to give herself to a man, some do it with dignity and gracefulness, but the game is still the same. Like with a peacock show. We are in such deep competition with each other that we would murder just to be loved by someone, but if you can't love yourself and respect who you are as a woman then neither will he. People have forgotten the natural order of things, the man is supposed to be the hunter-gatherer and the woman takes care of home and hearth, and he is the pursuer and we are the one who get's pursued. Men know we outnumber them, that's the reason they act like we are so disposable to them. It's time to take it back. You own it and they want it. There is nothing wrong with putting a disclaimer on it. If you don't require anything from him he won't step up and do the right thing. I was always conflicted about my worth as a woman, because the one I was chasing didn't see me like, when you finally reach your epiphany and say, I CHOSE ME  THEN YOU WILL SEE THE TIDES CHANGE.